I Am Enough Because I Care.

Have you checked your “care” barometer, lately?

The care I am  talking about is:

1.) Self-Care …

2.) Personal ¬†Development as care, ¬†and …

3.) Care that involves you  being  a caring individual in this society.

If you haven‚Äôt ¬†been the ¬†most caring individual lately, it’s ¬†likely you¬†haven‚Äôt¬†reached out to anyone in a thoughtful way, lately. ¬† But that’s the norm sometimes. ¬†It’s hard isn’t it? ¬† We can barely care for ourselves, so how do we manage to reach out to others? I know. I am guilty. ¬†I remember once, ¬†I was in church, and the pastor was ¬†saying if we want to make a difference:” Ask God to help you be a blessing to someone else.”

It was deep that entire week, I was the most compassionate human being  I had been in a long while.  I had started something.

I ¬†am a person who cares for others. ¬†In many ways it’s my profession, yet also in several¬†ways, its also my ¬†calling. ¬† I care¬†because¬†someone cared for me. To be¬†honest, I am not sure caring would come as easily as it does, or had I not gone through a few ¬†situations¬†to ¬†cause me to be cared for. And have people¬†reach¬†out to me, in very merciful ways. I am very thankful God is in my life,¬†because¬†caring took on a new¬†meaning¬† for me when I met a few sisters and brothers who love God, in a very ¬† caring and ¬†completely ¬†selfless way. ¬† I remember a¬†time¬†when I was ‚Äúcar-less‚ÄĚ. My car broke down, ¬†and since I was separated¬†from my first husband, I¬†didn‚Äôt¬†have an extra car‚Ķand I ¬†was devastated. ‚ÄúHow was I going to get to work?!


How was I going to go grocery shopping? And how was I going to take care of all my business?‚ÄĚ I¬†already felt alone form being by myself that summer and things were looking pretty bleak. I believe it was a¬†Friday, and my car caught on fire in the parking lot where I work. The engine just blew on me. I ¬†remember having tons of hope, though. I was encouraged. Why.. I don‚Äôt know, but I just began to count my blessings,¬†because¬†there were so many things going well for me, that ¬†I¬†couldn‚Äôt¬†complain. ¬† I¬†wasn‚Äôt¬†working that¬†summer, and I ¬†found out I could get¬†employment¬†during the summer months, and I wasn‚Äôt even expecting it. ¬†As surprised as I was, I was completely hopeful things would work out. ¬†I went to church that Sunday with a smile on my face, and telling every one it would work out, just by a¬†testimony, and ¬†I as thanking God. After church, two¬†people¬†came to me and said , ‚ÄúHey, I have a car you can use ¬†its our second car, we don‚Äôt use it very much, but we‚Äôd like to bless you. Another friends, said:‚ÄĚ I am¬†going¬†out of town for two weeks, and you are welcome to hold the keys to mine.‚ÄĚ I was shocked! These two persons will be forever imprinted on my life and a part of my compassion ¬†list of people who care.. ¬†I ¬†still love them very much to this day. And not just¬†because¬†they gave me something, but¬†because¬†I saw God in their actions, and¬†they¬†made ¬†me smile and believe God even more.

I have had aunts, friends,  and  people in my life who knew me and knew how devastated, broken unloved and  hurt I have been in situations and  man, when you are down, and you have even more to struggle with,  as a result of being down, it’s just good to have someone reach out and love on you.  It feels  really, really good, to have someone come and give you a makeover to your office when you feel so disorganized Р(my girlfriend in Texas); or someone to give you the keys to a car when you  have none ( my   former church member friend in  NY), or for someone to buy you a meal when you are starving and have no money. ( My friend  and sister in Christ.)

I was once even was kicked out of someone’s home, and had no place to go, and a friend stepped in and opened up their home to me!   I have been on the other end, and I tell you, as  great as it felt to receive, it feels even better to give.

Just today, ¬†I was ¬†out with my best friend – ¬†and we got ¬†pedicures – ¬†and we just had lunch together. ( Uh… that would be my husband. ¬†But don’t tell him I told you that!) ¬† Haha…. And that was self care. ¬†Was it expensive/. Sure was… but it felt so good to be pampered, and his smile, having ¬†done this for the first time.. was priceless.

We all need a little pampering sometime. Ask your self how you  can be instrumental in this process and give yourself some  time, once a month, at least to : DO YOU. Alright?

So I admonish  you, WATCH who God has sent to cross your path. Be aware of those around you. Love on them.  Pay attention to detail in your life, and how you benefit from being in right relationship with them. Feel their sorrow with them.  Ask them if they need anything. Call them and tell them you love them, even if it does mean feeling vulnerable  for a moment. It’s ok.  And you will  see them turn toward you, or turn a little closer towards God, if that’s the hope you desire to give. I have learned so much from such giving people in my life about how to treat others when they are down.

¬†And ASK yourself? What’s my spirit and soul like today? Do I feel drained, out of touch with myself, has life bee a little figgy, lately/. Then COMMIT to self care. ¬†I have created a ¬†self care course called “The Rhythm-Conscious Life:¬†A Self-Care Course for Steadying Your Life.” This course¬†will¬†¬†help you with this process. ¬† Join us, by clicking here.

God can work even greater in you, when you  are open and have such a surrendered heart.

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